Recently, a TV series called Wo Ju is quite popular. It has stirred up a heated debate on love or bread. because in this show the
heroine Haizao betrayed her considerate but poor boyfriend and turned to Songsiming, a man with higher status in the society and larger fortune. This reveals a grim reality: love without bread, or love without houses and cars is worth nothing, especially in today’s world
where money
makes the mare go. Of course some of you may be lucky enough to meet your Mr. Right who is both rich and caring, and thus have a perfect relationship. However, the rest are not that fortunate to have perfection patronized. Facing this situation I cannot help asking whether to marry a big house is that important. Anyway, I would stick to the conviction that true love is the better choice, regardless how much money he or she has.
However, when I searched on the internet among the flying comments about this TV show, I found that 88.3% of girls would choose Song over Xiaobei, and 62.9% of boys would choose to be like Song. In other words, most of us, both girls and boys, are in favor of the material pursuit rather than the true love.
Admittedly, people are getting more and more realistic. I remember one of the most famous lines of Wo Ju: “if a man really loves a woman, he should first of all give her a large sum of money and then buy her a mansion. So even if the man doesn’t love her anymore, she still has some place to stay.” However, when being interviewed by Huacheng Business, Li Nian, the impersonator of Haizao, indicated that any relationship mixed with extrinsic factors is not true love. The once glorified true love should not be beaten by people’s superficial material
pursuit. Isn’t it pathetic if our world is dominated by people’s greed for practical interests? Anyhow, we need to fill this material world with true love. Material pursuit is epidemic what true love is the remedy. It is about giving, not receiving; it is shared by sweet moments spent together, not by gifts.
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