Growing up, I always had a close relationship with my parents. We laughed together, cried together, and shared our thoughts and dreams with each other. However, as I entered my teenage years, things started to change.
随着我进入青少年时期,我和父母之间的关系开始发生变化。
I became more independent, wanting to make my own decisions and assert my own opinions. This often led to conflicts with my parents, who had certain expectations and rules they wanted me to follow.
我变得更加独立,想要做出自己的决定并表达自己的观点。这经常导致与父母发生冲突,他们有一些期望和规则希望我遵守。
The most common cause of our arguments was my desire for freedom and their need for control. I wanted to go out with my friends, stay out late, and make my own choices without their interference. On the other hand, my parents wanted to protect me, guide me, and ensure that I made the right decisions.
我们争吵最常见的原因是我想要自由,他们需要控制。我想和朋友出去玩、晚归,而不受他们的干涉。另一方面,我的父母想要保护我、引导我,并确保我做出正确的决定。
Our arguments often escalated into shouting matches, with hurtful words exchanged and emotions running high. I would feel misunderstood and controlled, while my parents would feel disrespected and worried about my well-being.
我们的争吵经常升级为吵架,互相说出伤人的话语,情绪高涨。我会感觉被误解和受控,而我的父母会感到受到不尊重并担心我的健康。
Looking back, I realize that our conflicts stemmed from a lack of communication and understanding. Instead of talking calmly and listening to each other’s perspectives, we would lash out in anger and frustration.
回顾过去,我意识到我们的冲突源于沟通和理解的缺乏。我们没有冷静地交流和倾听对方的观点,而是愤怒和沮丧地互相抨击。
Over time, I have learned the importance of patience, empathy, and compromise in resolving disagreements with my parents. I have started to communicate more openly with them, expressing my feelings and thoughts in a calm and respectful manner.
随着时间的推移,我开始了解在与父母解决分歧时耐心、同理心和妥协的重要性。我开始更加开放地与他们沟通,以冷静而尊重的方式表达我的感受和想法。
By listening to their concerns and trying to see things from their perspective, I have been able to find common ground and reach compromises that benefit both parties. Our relationship has improved as a result, and we now have a stronger bond built on mutual respect and understanding.
通过倾听他们的担忧并试图从他们的角度看问题,我能够找到共同点并达成让双方受益的妥协。由此,我们的关系有所改善,现在我们之间建立了一个建立在相互尊重和理解基础上的更牢固的纽带。
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